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PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 8:48 am    Post subject: 2AM Phone Call Reply with quote

While I was asleep, my cell phone rang on its charger. But I managed to sleep through it.

6 hours later, I take off its charger and see that there was message on it. I activate it to get the message.

It was the NY State Police, Rockland County Division, saying that there was a car accident on I-95 which involved my ex-from-hell and our daughter. No details of the accident was given.

They're both in Rockland County Medical; the ex in gaurded but stable condiction. Aiesha (Very_Itchy_Fur) in critical.

Aiesha at least to have the brains to put '-ICE' next to my name in her cell phone. This means 'In Case of Emergency', gives the police and emergency medical people the information of who to call.

I will be meeting with the ex's husband later today, and we'll be going to Rockland Medical to check up oh them.

I swear, just when things were beginning to fall back into my life, another tragedy has to happen. God- I hate you, I really do.

I'll be updating when I can, leeching on whatever net connections I can over there. Other than then, I'll be disapppearing off the face of the Earth, making demands and threats to an uncaring deity, and make sure that he come forth with them. At this point in my life, where I prepared for my death and somehow beat it, I am not prepared to face a death of another- especially of one who I care about.

So Long Everyone.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 9:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Everything is going to be alright, Elfen. I'm here if ye need me. *hugs*
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 11:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just don't have the words EF but my thoughts are with you.
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 1:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

UPDATE:
Apparently, the ride with the ex's huband never came. At least not for the time allotted for travel.
This leaves me no other choice than to go to work to barrow an advancement in pay from the boss, and take the bus to Rockland County. I leave at 2pm EST, and will be arriving there at about 3:15pm EST. The police will be waiting for me at that bus station to take me to the hospital, which worries me. Police never escort anyone unless its to ID a body.

I spoken to the police over there about the accident, apparently it happened yesterday, near Exit 14. Details thus far are sketchy, but the car flipped over in the left hand side of the north bound I-95, and ended up on the south bound side. No details about that, but I will survey the car tomarrow when I get a chance.

I-95 is the North/South bound route that Aiesha takes to go to Ithica; I-95 to exit 18b (I think, I forget), then onto I-280 for another 200 miles until you hit Ithica City Limits. Ithica State U, Cornell U, Cornell Med. U. and several smaller colleges are there. Aiesha was attending Cornell Med. U., after graduating from Cornell U, and apparently was going back after a on & off summer vacation with me and her (step)parent(s).

I just feel numb right now. I just want to hit something. I want to scream, yell, and curse out god for every once of universal engery that he is worth. I swear- this is so hard on me as it is, but if I end up having to bury her, may everyone go run for their lives for I will invoke armeggedon upon this planet. But I am not right by this. I cant let this anger take me and use me, for many will be hurt by its results. For that- I am sorry if I do.

The only hope I have is that she is from me- gifted with certain abilities, including being able to heal from most injuries. But the extend of hers, is unknown to me right now. With that- little hope remains. Furthering complications- If I could, I would, but cant, donate what she needs to heal. I mean, blood. I'm too chemo'd up to give her a pint of me to give to her, for it might do more harm than good; even though we are the same blood type: AB-. That hurts me even more.

I should be back online around 4pm EST, and update any news that I get.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

2nd UPDATE:
Aiesha (Very_Itchy_Fur) is in the intensive care ward, connected to life support (respirator and iv feeding) in a coma. Much of her head and face is bandaged, with a cervical neck brace and right arm in a cast, along with massive internal injuries. The life monitoring machines says that she is alive but barely.

How ever it happened, as the doctor explained it to me, when the car flipped over, it hit the passenger side first, where she was at. The seatbelt must have failed at this point, because she hit the window when it hit the floor, and was bounced around inside in the seat of the car as the lap-part of the seatbelt held her in place. When the car landed on the roof, only her side collasped onto her; telling me that the side support pillars on her side failed. The driver's side remained intact. According to them, she should have been pulled out of the car dead, for no one survives that kind of damage.

The ex is in the regular ward, but badly beaten up and with internal injuries, under sedation. She has not been told about our daughter yet.

Her husband was there with the ex, and as soon as he openned his mouth, I told him to shut up or fight me outside the hospital building. The bastard deliberately stood me up, and that pisses me off to no end.

They dont expect Aiesha to survive, though she did manage to hold on through the night. And I'll be here to see what I can do to see her improve. If she is anything like her biological father (me), she will walk out of here in a month or two. Its these next few days that will be the critical ones for her.

They keep some odd visiting hours here, but I'll be back on the next shift, and will stay until closing. Then I'll be back tomarrow and the following days, as long as my money holds up.

They gave me her personal items, which I will go through at the hotel. Next visiting hours shift is from 6-9pm. Tomarrow's is from 10am-5pm and at 6-9pm again. They have my number in case things changes.

Thus far as I can tell, the ex was speeding with a fully loaded compact car, getting Aiesha and her things back to school when the accident occurred. Thus far, until I read the accident report and check out the wreck, I put the blame on the ex for what has happened.

Right now this anger has turned me into some cold revenge seeking monster, waiting to be released. I can not let that happen. If I do, I fear that people are going to get hurt.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 10:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

3rd UPDATE:
Nothing to report on Aiesha (Very_Itchy_Fur).

But in speaking with the state police, if she dies, they are going to press charges of 1st degree vehicular homicide against my ex, along with reckless endangerment and speeding 25mph over the speed limit which they have on her now. Thats why they were escorting me about; since the paper work change of her last name to mine, they think I'm her life-long father, and they want to know if I would agree to this.

To be honest, my ex suffered enough and should be let go. Furthermore from NYS exits 10 - 14B, though its posted as a 55mph speed limit, average speed in that area is easily over 75mph. With the exception of a few hills and a couple of long wide curves, that whole area is just miles and miles of straight concrete and asphault. In my driving days, I averaged over 100+ in that same area. Why? Because its a dangerous area where a driver can easily fall asleep behind the wheel if they are not careful. You get on it and you get off it as quickly as possible.

If this is true, that she, the ex, was at fault in this accident, I have to find something positive in all this anger and hatred. Yes, I'm pissed angry to the point of feeling nothing. Yes, I want to go out and kill something. Yes I condenm god and all his glory because he's been breaking the promise I was taught he would do of 'Bad things dont happen to good people.', and for me, this would be the second time he took somebody I love so deeply away from me by allowing some bad to happen to a good person. I dont think I could face that.

Tomorrow, I get to see the car and go through it with a fine tooth comb. Why? I prefer to see things for myself and draw my own conclusions from what I find there.

I should post around 12noon - 1pm tomarrow, after I see the car and before I go back to my little girl.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 4:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

4th UPDATE:
Instead of going to the police to see the car, I went to the hospital instead.

While sitting with her, the doctors did their appointed rounds; followed by the county District Attorney and local sherrif of the area. Apparently, since this happened in a place where they only have at best 4 homocides a year (nearly all by drunk driving), and that both the Ex and the husband are black in the middle of an all rich white town, they got the notion of 'Lets Hang Some Niggers!' Aiesha (Very_Itchy_Fur) being my biological daughter, is 1/2 Black and 1/2 Puerto Rican, thus can pass off for a lightly tanned white girl with curly hair.

I am not happy with how this is going, nor how other options are being played out; a couple of you know, since we spoke privately about it. It was an accident as far as I am concerned, due to the stupid actions of one person who thinks she can out do me in everything that I can do, thus she got badly burned by it. Normally, as I have sent her the money to get airplane tickets since Aiesha separated from parents and they do not want to support her because of me. Its a lot of stupid tripe just for the acknownledgement and love of her biological father that they kept secret from the both of us for so long. If I would have known earlier of her existance, I would have done my best to support her through the years. Why my ex would be driving her to school instead is beyond me.

The husband showed up while I was there as well. This only adds to the bull crap that is being flung by all parties involved. He dared stated how this was my fault, that I should have left things alone, and that I have no business messing around with a girl 1/2 my age. The line of which my anger would have been set off was almost crossed, as normally, I would have punched him out for such comments, a reputation he well knows for we too also went to the same school. I had to tell him point blank that the state police and the D.A. of this shit hole town want to hang the ex for the accident. If Aiesha is to die- they are so willing to add homocide charges to the two they already have on her. Of course, he did not believe me, I had to throw him the file I am carrying and show him what was going on. To his disbelief of the facts and denial of whats going on, thinks that I have somehow started this process just to get even with the ex.

Personally, I dont want this to happen. I dont want Aiesha to die, dont want to ex to go through legal crap of the accident. If she has to go through with the court system, arrest her now, handcuff her to the bed, go through the trial, and be let loose on time served as she heals in the hospital. As for my anger, it has to be dealt with in other ways. I just wish people would understand this of me.

Options right now are few if any, and most are no better than none. Only thing that remains is what little hope I have that she will pull through and wake up soon. All other injuries can take their time to heal. In her waking up, many questions can be answered and the ex's charges can be dropped to a minimal 1 or 2. The only good thing I can say about here is that the judges are honest, not unlike the judges in the city.

I'm going get a bite to eat and go to her bedside again, staring at those lines that shows she has some life in her somewhere...
So long everyone.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 4:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

5th UPDATE:
Bought something to eat, but could not eat it. BUT I just realized something, something I had forgotten even though I had to deal with it during my dealing with the cancer I had: the medical industry is based on the amount of insurance one has to pay for its expenses. If more money can be put in, then more options will be available. With me and my cancer- it openned up experimental options have has saved my life for the time being.

In short, somebody is going to owe me big time for this but I am going to empty out my portiion of the Shortfellow Trust Fund to give her all the options to get her more options and help her heal as fast as scientifically possible. As a premed student of the 1980's I know what the limits of the human body are, and the availibility of technology at the time; things has greatly improved since then, and its now time for me to be equal to these idiot doctors on their terms.

There is also the technology side of this equation. Its obvious that Aiesha cant be moved, but equipment can. Shit! Why haven't I thought of this before? Now to do some research and send my findings so some damn doctor can get famous instead of me, but at least I'll have my grown up daughter and friend again.

I'll be back later tonight with some hopefully good news!

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 10:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

6th UPDATE:
Nevermind that this is a 3 day holiday weekend., but there should be at least one hospital administrator in the place to over see thats going on in the place.

Either way, I got to talk with the doctor of the ward about Aiesha's condition. He agreed that with more money to pay the bills, that more options would available. Its just a matter on conveying the money to the hospital. But he disagreed on the alternative use of technologies on her. Simply put, they are not willing to, for example, an ultra-sound mahine to check for blood clots in the brain.

I've also been given a choice to make in less than 10 days: if she does not improve to unplug her from the respirator and let her die. My answer thus far is no, but she will be tested as to whether or not she can survive without the machine, for it does cause organ damage in long term use. A major negative issue for a positive use device. I'll allow for the test, but not for termination.

Only positive, that in staring at her life signs on the monitor and whats written on the clip board, there was been a very tiny amount of improvement. Perhaps less than 1% but enough for me to see that she is getting better: increased brain activity and higher bio signs. The doctors would argue not to get my hopes too high, because a 1% rise is not a significant difference in healing. I have to disagree in that train of thought.

Since I came here, I have not eaten, except for morning coffee and a sllice of toast. Like today, I sat at Burger King and ordered the #2 (Double whooper meal), sat down with it, and did not touch it. Then I walked away from it. Its been like that since I got here. I'm still numb, and even worse, uncertain as to what to say or do anymore but to wait.

-Until tomarrow...

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 10:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm glad to hear of the slight improvement, obviously hoping for more... Got y'all in my thoughts, wishing some warmth your way!
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 12:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I too am glad to hear of the slight improvement as well Elfen, I'll be keeping her in my thoughts as well...
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 2:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

*hugs elfen* My thoughts and hopes are with you my friend... Hold on and don't give up. Whatever happens, we're all here for you.
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 2:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

7th UPDATE:
Aiesha's progress is going to be slow, but she will recover, eventually. Chances are she inherited my thick skull. Nothing much on her progress, little if any improvement has been made.

Its the interpersonal bullcrap that is getting to me. As some here who peronally know me will tell you that I can be an arrogant stubborn son of a bitch, not giving any ground until some has been given first. Hence the current problem: butting heads against the ex's husband. He's acting like a typical ghetto nigger who blames everyone else for his problems and find no fault of his own. A mistake has been made and an accident created by that mistake; its time to own up to that mistake and take responsilibty for that accident. Hell, isn't that what insurance is for?

All the talking inthe world between him and I is not going to solve the problem here. It has to be between her and I. Even then, it may not solve anything between us all.

I just tired and weaken from this crap and wish it to end.

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 4:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

8th UPDATE:
Spoke with the doctor; we are going to test her ability to breathe on her own before I leave on Monday afternoon. If she doesn't, then we are going to have to wait until I return on Saturday, and then stay for the day for the disconnect decision to be made. I still say no at this point.

I just hope others do not make the decision for me; because that is what worries me, and thats I believe may happen if the husband has any say on this. In the least, I have already signed the papers so that no one acts without my permission. I just hope that they are followed to the letter.

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 03, 2006 9:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

9th UPDATE:
Sudden Realization; thank god for PF. The last post before this one was started was The Circle Is Now Complete
It ocurred 2 days before the accident. Now things fall into place:
Ex is/was still under the influence of being shaken to the core by seeing the twin of somebody she knows to be dead, but never knew of the twin's existence- hence, in her eyes, she saw the living ghost of a friend. So, while she was driving Aiesha back to school, she was high tailing it as fast as she could to get as far away from ex-from-heaven and I. She was not of the right frame of mind to be behind the wheel of the car, nor should she have been. Aiesha's licensed to drive, and could have driven. So...

Maybe it can be used as proof to drop all charges against the ex-from-hell. Or maybe I'm grasping at straws here.

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