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PrincessB Registered User
Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 3070 Location: south of Nashville, Tn
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Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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Many employers have admitted that they are afraid of confrontation so they won't call people to say no thanks when they are not interested because they are afraid of the persons reaction. Which is really a "grow some balls" sort of instance.
It annoys me more when they act like they really want you while you are there but never call. If you're not interested in me, tell me, then I don't have to wait and hope. _________________ http://www.bukisa.com/people/AmberBarnes check it out!
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PrincessB Registered User
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 1:45 am Post subject: |
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Why is it perfectly acceptable for men to whine, complain and be continually rude but if a woman finally stops being nice guys are quick to scream "pms!"?
Why is it that so many guys immediately ask, "Is it that time of the month" whenever a girl gets angry with them for anything.
I've seen over and over again guys act like rude childish jerks and women grin and bear it for a long time but when the woman finally gets pushed to far suddenly everyone freaks out about how horrible she is.
It's a rather pathetic double standard. _________________ http://www.bukisa.com/people/AmberBarnes check it out!
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Teric Registered User
Joined: 11 Dec 2006 Posts: 2566 Location: Southern California
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 6:37 pm Post subject: |
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Not *all* men fall into the "it must be PMS" trap. Unfortuately, some do. _________________ Styx: "Oh sure like flaming a dragon going to do massive damage, brave challenge there Teric." |
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PrincessB Registered User
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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No, not all but I've known a lot that do. It's kind of amusing to watch from the outside when a guy does something to anger a girl and then asks if she's PMSing and watch the girl just about explode. But it's also very annoying when guys think they can do no wrong and any time a girl stops being nice and sweet it's either "that time of the month" or "she's just a psychotic b!tch".
I think it tends to depend on your female influences. If your mom was not good enough to teach you better or you only deal with girls that are too embarrassed to talk about anything. I've known a lot of girls that subscribe to the "never tell a man anything". They expect men to know all about them but never want to tell a guy anything about women. That really ends up hurting women everywhere. I always tell IronTiger all the stuff that women want me to know but won't tell them, he can't learn if no one will ever enlighten him. _________________ http://www.bukisa.com/people/AmberBarnes check it out!
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mwalimu Registered User
Joined: 08 Nov 2002 Posts: 782 Location: Normal, IL
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:26 pm Post subject: |
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My ex-wife was noticeably more likely to be upset and irrational at "that time of the month" Not by enough that you could call it a reliable indicator in the absence of other evidence, but heaven forbid that I should ever point it out when said other evidence indicated it was almost certainly the case.
But she was willing to use the "women's minds just work that way" excuse with me. Things could be going well, romantically speaking if you get my drift, but if anything happened to disrupt her mood, even if it totally wasn't my fault and I had no control over it, her mood was spoiled. And the worst part was, no rainchecks, no credit for past attempts. No matter how much effort I had put into developing the mood that had been spoiled, by the next day it was ancient history and I was back to square one. And when we discussed this pattern and I let her know it upset me, she used the "women are just that way" line. _________________ mwalimu
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PrincessB Registered User
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:03 am Post subject: |
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That is entirely counter productive... To herself. One cannot expect a guy to understand women if every women keeps everything secret.
I think that annoys me pretty much as much as guys that immediately go to the "it must be that time of the month" or "she's a psychotic b!tch" just because a girl got angry about something that a guy did or caused. Basically causes more frustration and work for us women who don't keep guys in the dark.
Because I explain things to IronTiger he knows more about women then most and often helps male coworkers understand their girls and REALLY help their relationship. _________________ http://www.bukisa.com/people/AmberBarnes check it out!
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